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on December 28, 2013

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My Hair Life Journey

I am on a hair journey...And it has a life of its own.. I found out that I am my hair.. Well at least partially - LOL... Hair is a defining feature for women so it is important to keep it looking good because when it doesn't it can make you feel down. The real question becomes do you love your natural self enough to love your hair the way it grows out of your head? Or maybe do you have the time and effort it will take to maintain a natural hairstyle? Should that really be a choice? Why is it that we feel we don't? Society's pressure to conform to an "other" standard of beauty is strong and pervasive, I thought I was immune and that I loved my hair straight just "because..." because it was easy and cheap to maintain (in NY anyway - $15 wash and set!!) because I could wash and set it myself and wouldn't have to pay a stylist because my man liked it like that because I liked when it blew in the wind because I was scared to be different from what I

Men...

I got a phone call from a guy I "dated" a while back. We hadn't been in touch in a while (almost 3 years) and it seemed that perhaps we would take another shot at getting to know each other. Little did I know - He has a live in situation with a three year old!!!!!!! I was shocked and appalled that he would think that I would be interested in getting involved with him on those terms. When I immediately shot his little fantasy down, I could tell he was crushed and immediately thought it had something to do with his performance... Baby, for real, get a clue. I wouldn't care if you made me faint, see stars and call on the Lord, it couldn't entice me to encroach on another woman's territory. Period. I guess he wasn't use to getting that response (although he swore that this was the first time he attempted to venture outside of his relationship - yeah right) because he insisted that we had this chemistry that couldn't be denied... LMAO!! . I just hope that

{Looking for Lessons in the Midst of Chaos} Paying Attention

Hey TNYN Readers! I have been besieged by trials lately and instead of worrying and/or freaking out, I have been doing my best to keep a calm head, check my emotional response and pray. This response is something that has taken me a while to get in order and I work on it daily. This is where the test comes in. It seems like as soon as you get to place with yourself, crazy things happen! Take for instance what happened to me yesterday. I left home without my iPad or cell phone, which is highly unusual. I wasn't sure what to do about it because there was no way I could go back home to get it, so I went on with my day. Something told me to stop home and pick it up on my way to my doctor's appt., but I didn't want to be late and when I arrived just in the nick of time, I justified my pushing that thought to stop at home away, feeling vindicated. I was wrong. In light of what occurred afterward, that was the voice of God and it may have saved me from so much more trouble down

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