It comes from the most unlikely places...
Tyrese "fine behind" Gibson?? LOL!
His advice about living following God without reference points is akin to being Eli in The Book of Eli who was actually blind for me. (sorry if I spoiled that for you) That film inspired me then and I needed a reminder.
Having goals and planning is great and necessary, but don't put things in concrete because God tends to laugh at the plans made by man. I have really got to stop feeling sorry for myself and having a pity party (by myself) about where I am and go willingly where God takes me so that I can achieve the greatness He has for me.
Putting the effort in, loving and listening to God's direction and staying prayed up are essential to being who you were meant to be!